Maybe it is just with Kyle and Me but attempting to pick a wedding date has been less about a day to celebrate our future life together and more about the Military. What date is your Career School? When will we be moving? Do we have enough time to to squeeze in a wedding but not feel like we squeezed it in? Can we make it coincide with block leave? When will you be deploying.. again. You get the point. I see my friends on Facebook who get engaged and within 1 week I have already received messages asking for addresses. Kyle and I have been engaged now for 6 months and are just starting to chip the iceberg. I am finding that my hands feel a little bit tied because I literally can't do much because I am waiting on the military to get their .....um, polite way to say this... affairs in order :)
This also brings up a Justice of The Peace Wedding. Going to the court house to make things a little easier until you actually have the wedding. My feelings are very mixed on this. Would it be easier? Of course. Does it spoil your actual wedding, when the time comes? ______ I am hoping someone can fill in that blank for me! I have heard from some friend (military) who highly recommend doing this and then having a wedding when it is more convenient, but I have to say I am not sold yet. .... Help??!
I will be truthful, I have probably watched too many romantic comedies and surprise surprise .... reality doesn't match up.
So I ask this to any one who might actually read this.... How did you pick your wedding day? Did you get married with a Justice of the Peace 1st? Any advice? In the end I want to pick a wedding and still have a romantic feeling come along with it (possible, yes?)
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